fs: synchronize close with other I/O for streams

Part of the flakiness in the
parallel/test-readline-async-iterators-destroy test comes from
fs streams starting `_read()` and `_destroy()` without waiting
for the other to finish, which can lead to the `fs.read()` call
resulting in `EBADF` if timing is bad.

Fix this by synchronizing write and read operations with `close()`.

Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/30660

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30837


Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>