deps: configure OpenSSL's SSL_trace to be built

OpenSSL doesn't compile `SSL_trace()` by default for historical reasons.
Add the enable-ssl-trace option to the OpenSSL Configure arguments.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/27376


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>