build: only check REPLACEME & DEP...X for releases

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/24575
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/24551
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/12958
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/12957
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/8325


Reviewed-By: Refael Ackermann <refack@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Daniel Bevenius <daniel.bevenius@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>