cli: add --stack-trace-limit to NODE_OPTIONS

I decided that it would make a lot of sense for me to set
`NODE_OPTIONS=--stack-trace-limit=100` on my development machine.

This code allows me to do that. :)

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/16495


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