stream: don't deadlock on aborted stream

Not all streams (e.g. http.ClientRequest) will always emit
'close' after 'aborted'.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29376


Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>