src: make --use-largepages a runtime option

Moves the option that instructs Node.js to-remap its static code to
large pages from a configure-time option to a runtime option. This
should make it easy to assess the performance impact of such a change
without having to custom-build.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30954


Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: David Carlier <devnexen@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: David Carlier <devnexen@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Denys Otrishko <shishugi@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: David Carlier <devnexen@gmail.com>