test: fix async-hooks tests

The 'test-graph.tcp' and 'test-tcpwrap' tests are using '::' as server
address. This is mapped to localhost on Linux, but fails on Windows.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/14865


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Refael Ackermann <refack@gmail.com>