fs: use finished over destroy w/ cb

destroy w/ is undocumented API which also will cause
a race if the stream is already destroying and potentially
invoking the callback too early and withou error.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/32809


Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Denys Otrishko <shishugi@gmail.com>