http: fix socket re-use races

Whether and when a socket is destroyed or not after a timeout is up to
the user. This leaves an edge case where a socket that has emitted
'timeout' might be re-used from the free pool. Even if destroy is called
on the socket, it won't be removed from the freelist until 'close' which
can happen several ticks later.

Sockets are removed from the free list on the 'close' event.
However, there is a delay between calling destroy() and 'close'
being emitted. This means that it possible for a socket that has
been destroyed to be re-used from the free list, causing unexpected
failures.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/32000


Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Denys Otrishko <shishugi@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>