tools: update dmn to 2.2.1 in update scripts

dmn 2.2.1 cleans more files than earlier versions.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/26462


Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Roman Reiss <me@silverwind.io>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Yuta Hiroto <hello@hiroppy.me>