test: adapt abort tests for new Windows code

V8 9.1 changed the way it aborts on uncaught exceptions on Windows.
It now uses the code 0x80000003 (exception breakpoint) instead of
0xC0000005 (access violation).

Refs: https://github.com/v8/v8/commit/26d85acee2c052aa128b77e2e5fde1d4c9306910

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/38273


Reviewed-By: Jiawen Geng <technicalcute@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Antoine du Hamel <duhamelantoine1995@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <midawson@redhat.com>
Reviewed-By: Mary Marchini <oss@mmarchini.me>