src,build: add --openssl-default-cipher-list

This commit adds a configuration option named
openssl-default-cipher-list which takes a colon separated string
specifying ciphers that should be used as the default ciphers instead of
the ones defined in node_constants.

The motivation for this is a use case where Fedora/RHEL would like
to be able to specify a default cipher in the format PROFILE=SYSTEM.
This would enable Fedora/RHEL to have a system wide security level for
all applications.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/33708
Refs: https://docs.fedoraproject.org/en-US/packaging-guidelines/CryptoPolicies/


Reviewed-By: David Carlier <devnexen@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>