deps: upgrade to libuv 1.30.0

Notable changes:

- Support for the Haiku platform has been added.
- The maximum UV_THREADPOOL_SIZE has been increased from
  128 to 1024.
- uv_fs_copyfile() now works properly when the source and
  destination files are the same.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/28449
Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/31969
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/27746


Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Jiawen Geng <technicalcute@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>