crypto: increase maxmem range from 32 to 53 bits

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/28755

Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29316
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/28799


Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>