build: add --without-node-code-cache configure option

So that it's possible to build without code cache (in particular,
without building mkcodecache) for testing.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30647
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/28845


Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: David Carlier <devnexen@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>