test: fix arguments order in assertions

Have the actual value first & the expected value second.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/24149


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>