deps: patch V8 to run on older XCode versions

Patch V8 (compiler/js-heap-broker.cc) to remove the use of an optional
property, which is a fairly new C++ feature, since that requires a newer
XCode version than the minimum requirement in BUILDING.md and thus
breaks CI.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/32831


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Jiawen Geng <technicalcute@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>