deps: copy all openssl header files to include dir

All symlink files in `deps/openssl/openssl/include/openssl/`
are removed and replaced with real header files to avoid
issues on Windows. Two files of opensslconf.h in crypto and
include dir are replaced to refer config/opensslconf.h.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/19638


Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Tobias Nießen <tniessen@tnie.de>
Reviewed-By: Rod Vagg <rod@vagg.org>