fs: watch signals for recursive incompatibility

This pull request makes fs.watch throw exception,
whenever it is used in an incompatible platform.
For this change following changes were made to api:

1.a new error type has been introduced.
2.fs.watch has been changed accordingly.

Users who use recursive  on
non-windows and osx platforms,
will face a new exception.
For this reason, it's a breaking change.

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/29901

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29947


Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Saúl Ibarra Corretgé <saghul@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>