deps,test,src,doc,tools: update to OpenSSL 3.0

This pull request updates the OpenSSL version that is statically
linked with Node.js from OpenSSl 1.1.1 to quictls OpenSSL 3.0.0+quic.

This pull request will replace the OpenSSL version that is currently
in the deps directory and when performing a normal build
OpenSSL 3.0+quic will be statically linked to the Node.js executable.
We will still be able to dynamically link to OpenSSL 1.1.1 and we have
a CI job which dynamically links to OpenSSL 1.1.1 which is run for
every pull request to make sure that we maintain backward compatibility.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/38512


Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <midawson@redhat.com>
Reviewed-By: Tobias Nießen <tniessen@tnie.de>