errors: eliminate all overhead for hidden calls

Eliminate all overhead for function calls that are to be
hidden from the stack traces at the expense of
reduced performance for the error case

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/35386

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/35644


Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Vladimir de Turckheim <vlad2t@hotmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Antoine du Hamel <duhamelantoine1995@gmail.com>