buffer: add {read|write}Big[U]Int64{BE|LE} methods

Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30361
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/19691


Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Tiancheng "Timothy" Gu <timothygu99@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Joyee Cheung <joyeec9h3@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: Tobias Nießen <tniessen@tnie.de>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>