crypto: add support for chacha20-poly1305 for AEAD

openSSL supports AEAD_CHACHA20_POLY1305(rfc7539) since 1.1.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/24081
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/24080
Refs: https://tools.ietf.org/html/rfc7539


Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Sam Roberts <vieuxtech@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Tobias Nießen <tniessen@tnie.de>