worker: rename error code to be more accurate

Rename `ERR_MISSING_MESSAGE_PORT_IN_TRANSFER_LIST`
to `ERR_MISSING_TRANSFERABLE_IN_TRANSFER_LIST` in order to be more
accurate.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/33872


Reviewed-By: Benjamin Gruenbaum <benjamingr@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Tobias Nießen <tniessen@tnie.de>