src: better encapsulate native immediate list

Refactor for clarity and reusability. Make it more obvious that the
list is a FIFO queue.

Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/32301
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/31386
Refs: https://github.com/openjs-foundation/summit/pull/240


Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>