lib: refactor to reuse validators

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/38608


Reviewed-By: Antoine du Hamel <duhamelantoine1995@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Zijian Liu <lxxyxzj@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>