lib: add signal name validator

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/27137


Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: Jeremiah Senkpiel <fishrock123@rocketmail.com>