deps: cherry-pick 9a49b22 from V8 upstream

Original commit message:
  Fix alloc/dealloc size mismatch for v8::BackingStore

  On newer compilers the {operator delete} with explicit {size_t}
  argument would be instantiated for {v8::BackingStore} and used
  in the destructor of {std::unique_ptr<v8::BackingStore>}. The {size_t}
  argument is wrong though, since the pointer actually points
  to a {v8::internal::BackingStore} object.
  The solution is to explicitly provide a {operator delete}, preventing
  an implicitly generated {size_t} operator.

  Bug:v8:11081

  Change-Id: Iee0aa47a67f0e41000bea628942f7e3d70198b83
  Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/2506712


  Commit-Queue: Ulan Degenbaev <ulan@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Camillo Bruni <cbruni@chromium.org>
  Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#70916}

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/35939
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/35669
Refs: https://github.com/v8/v8/commit/9a49b2298f65f6b18c5245f3681aca04e5fe4e46


Reviewed-By: Jiawen Geng <technicalcute@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <rlau@redhat.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gus Caplan <me@gus.host>