deps: cherry-pick http_parser_set_max_header_size

This commit adds http_parser_set_max_header_size() to the
http-parser for overriding the compile time maximum HTTP
header size.

Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/25173
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/24811
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/24692
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/http-parser/pull/453


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Myles Borins <myles.borins@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <michael_dawson@ca.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Сковорода Никита Андреевич <chalkerx@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Jeremiah Senkpiel <fishrock123@rocketmail.com>