build: allow x86_64 as a dest_cpu alias for x64

x86_64 is a standard arch descriptor on Linux, allow it as an alias for
our preferred descriptor: x64

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/18052


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>
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Reviewed-By: Joyee Cheung <joyeec9h3@gmail.com>
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