https: do not automatically use invalid servername

Stop automatically setting servername in https.request() if the target
host is specified with an IP address. Doing so is invalid, and triggers
a deprecation warning. It is still possible to send an IP address as a
servername if its required, but it needs to be explicity configured, it
won't happen automatically.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/28209


Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Yongsheng Zhang <zyszys98@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>