fs: fix WriteStream autoClose order

WriteStream autoClose was implemented by manually
calling .destroy() instead of using autoDestroy
and callback. This caused some invariants related
to order of events to be broken.

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/31776

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/31790


Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>