build: silence c-ares Windows compiler warnings

Silence the following compiler warning on Windows:
`inet_addr': Use inet_pton() or InetPton() instead or define
_WINSOCK_DEPRECATED_NO_WARNINGS to disable deprecated API warnings`

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/31311


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>