deps: fix for non GNU assembler in AIX

AIX has own assembler not GNU as that does not support --noexecstack.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/25381


Reviewed-By: Daniel Bevenius <daniel.bevenius@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Shigeki Ohtsu <ohtsu@ohtsu.org>
Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/25688