doc: add note about forwarding stream options

It is a common and unfortunate pattern to simply just forward
any and all options into the base constructor without taking
into account whether these options might conflict with basic
stream assumptions.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29857


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>