lib,src: switch Buffer::kMaxLength to size_t

Change the type of `Buffer::kMaxLength` to size_t because upcoming
changes in V8 will allow typed arrays > 2 GB on 64 bits platforms.

Not all platforms handle file reads and writes > 2 GB though so keep
enforcing the 2 GB typed array limit for I/O operations.

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/31399
Refs: https://github.com/libuv/libuv/pull/1501

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/31406


Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: David Carlier <devnexen@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Tobias Nießen <tniessen@tnie.de>
Reviewed-By: Shelley Vohr <codebytere@gmail.com>