src: add file name to 'Module did not self-register' error

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30125


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: David Carlier <devnexen@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Tobias Nießen <tniessen@tnie.de>