tls: new tls.TLSSocket() supports sec ctx options

Add support to new tls.TLSSocket() to create a SecureContext object with
all its supported options, in the same way they are supported for all
the other APIs that need SecureContext objects.

Fix: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/10538
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/11005


Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>