stream: fix duplicate logic in stream destroy

Fix duplicate logic in stream destroy as the same logic is being shared
across methods and thus can be encapsulated into a single method.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/35727


Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anto Aravinth <anto.aravinth.cse@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Benjamin Gruenbaum <benjamingr@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Robert Nagy <ronagy@icloud.com>
Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Ricky Zhou <0x19951125@gmail.com>