zlib: use `.bytesWritten` instead of `.bytesRead`

The introduction of `.bytesRead` to zlib streams was unfortunate,
because other streams in Node.js core use the exact opposite naming
of `.bytesRead` and `.bytesWritten`.

While one could see how the original naming makes sense in
a `Transform` stream context, we should try to work towards more
consistent APIs in core for these things.

This introduces `zlib.bytesWritten` and documentation-only deprecates
`zlib.bytesRead`.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/19414
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/8874
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/13088


Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Сковорода Никита Андреевич <chalkerx@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Sakthipriyan Vairamani <thechargingvolcano@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>