stream: add type and range check for highWaterMark

The (h|readableH|writableH)ighWaterMark options should only permit
positive numbers and zero.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/18098


Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>