build: disable openssl asm on arm64 for now

There is reason to believe the generated assembly isn't working
correctly so let's disable it for now pending further investigation.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/24270
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/23913


Reviewed-By: Daniel Bevenius <daniel.bevenius@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Refael Ackermann <refack@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>