test: fix common.expectsError

The function should strictly test for the error class and only accept
the correct one. Any other error class should fail.

Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/19579
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/13686
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/13682


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>