assert, util: *DeepEqual() handles ArrayBuffers

Previously, all ArrayBuffers were considered equal in assert.deepEqual()
and assert.deepStrictEqual().
Now, ArrayBuffers and SharedArrayBuffers must have the same byte lengths
and contents to be considered equal.
In loose mode, an ArrayBuffer is considered equal to a SharedArrayBuffer
if they have the same contents, whereas in strict mode, the buffers must
be both ArrayBuffers or both SharedArrayBuffers.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/22266


Reviewed-By: Benjamin Gruenbaum <benjamingr@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Tiancheng "Timothy" Gu <timothygu99@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>