http: support server options on createServer

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/19461


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Evan Lucas <evanlucas@me.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
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