fs: add default options for *stat()

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29114
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/29113


Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>