lib: setup IPC channel before console

Initializing IOCP on the same fd twice can fail on Windows.
Consequently, if the IPC channel uses fd 1 or 2 and the console is setup
first, writing to the IPC channel will fail.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/16562
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/16141


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Refael Ackermann <refack@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>