http: add new functions to OutgoingMessage

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/11562
Backport-of: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/10805


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Roman Reiss <me@silverwind.io>
Reviewed-By: Sakthipriyan Vairamani <thechargingvolcano@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Sam Roberts <vieuxtech@gmail.com>