stream: reset flowing state if no 'readable' or 'data' listeners

If we don't have any 'readable' or 'data' listeners and we are
not about to resume. Then reset flowing state to initial null state.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/31036
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/24474


Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>