lib: make structuredClone spec compliant

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/40246

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/40251


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Benjamin Gruenbaum <benjamingr@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Antoine du Hamel <duhamelantoine1995@gmail.com>